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Ask Raylene

It seems that no matter where Raylene goes, she is always being stopped by her fans with some "unique" questions. So when I told Raylene I wanted to do a site dedicated just to her, she told me that I should create this particular section. It's a selection of some of the most popular asked sex questions Raylene gets from both her male and female fans and of course the answer she gives them.

I've been with my girlfriend for 8 months now, but we haven't had sex because I'm very insecure about my penis. The size is fine, but when I get aroused it bends downward. Is there something wrong with me?

Of course not. In fact I hear it's a common condition. I think the only thing you would have to worry about is if it causes you pain during intercourse. If so, then of course see your doctor right away. Other than that, talk about how lucky a girl would be to have sex with you!

I'd love to experiment with sex toys, but my boyfriend isn't into anything kinky. How can I change his mind? We've been together about 3 years now and although I enjoy having sex with him, I want to try something new. What can I do?

If you ask 100 people that question, you are likely to get 100 different answers ... but that is not always a bad thing ... if we all had the same likes and dislikes then what a boring world this would be. But if you want to sway your boyfriend to come your way, then why not give him something he wants first. Nothing puts a man in an agreeable mood like a good blow job.

My girlfriend said that her friend has 10 to 15 orgasms a night, yet she barely has even one. How can I give her multiple ones?

I think I read in cosmo once that the number of girls capable of multiple orgasms is something like 2% of the entire female population. As for your 10-15 a night chick, well I can't help but thinking she is faking it. I mean it is POSSIBLE but not likely. 2 - 3 MAYBE, but 10 - 15? Come on boys ... you really aren't that gullible are you? As for your own girlfriend, you might want to try spending more time with her before sex. A good finger fuck before the real deal seems to work nicely for getting her engines up and running before the big show! And you know boys, it is okay to use your tongue! Nothing like a good tongue lashing to make a girl come come come!

I'd really like to have a threesome with my girlfriend and another girl. What's the best way to make that happen?

Wouldn't you and every other man ... only problem with that fantasy is that most girls don't share it with you. They have this thing about sharing ... some girls feel you don't love them if you are willing to share them with another. Some girls are just worried that if you have sex with another woman you might like it so much you will leave her for that other chick. Truth is, it's all about one thing ... INSECURITY! If your girlfriend isn't willing to have a 3some then there is a reason ... YOU! Make her feel secure with your relationship and of your love for her and watch how willing she is to open up and try new things ... 3somes will be just the beginning..

Every time I have sex with my girlfriend she makes me pull out and insists on sucking me off. Why does she always do this and what should I do?

I don't know. Seriously. Maybe she has some issue with come. Maybe she is fearful of getting pregnant? Maybe you should be asking her this question instead of me. Communication is the key to getting what you want in a relationship.

My girlfriend is very conservative in the bedroom, I am not. She likes missionary position only. What can I do to try and get her to try new things? Hell I'd be happy with just a new position or even a blow job every once in awhile. What do you think?

Work hard on letting her know how beautiful she is. The more attractive she feels about herself, the more secure she will be with her body. The more secure she feels with her body, the more likely she will be to try new things with it. This is not something you can do overnight. It's a long drawn out process and must be repeated every day. But really - is it so bad considering what you get in the end. :)